the value of the word no

Sometimes the simple word no is what a bossy two year old needs to hear. The bending over backwards to accommodate for her every whim is not OK. She is 2 Not twelve. She does not get to slam doors in your face and literally running start push you through the door because she doesn't like her Pajama choices. She is 2. Independence is great but I think this kid needs some serious realization about the way the world works real quick or when that baby gets here she's going to be an emotional and devastating wreck. Just my opinion. Also, no does not mean forever no. It means at this moment in time no. So no, I don't want kids but someday I might. No I don't have a job but someday I will. No is a word. Nothing more. Also side note... I feel very self conscious about my choices and words while staying here. I'm terrified I'm going to mess up.