I am genetically endowed with a nice round backside. I am proud of my butt. In fact, I often am the first to make a joke and to point attention to my hindquarters. However, when people stare without invitation, I find that rude and disrespectful. Not only is it objectifying, but it makes me feel self conscious. Lesson here, don't stare unless I joke about it and make it allowed.
Second order of business: when I wear sweats do not judge. They are the worlds most comfortable and cuddly invention for clothing. I enjoy being warm and comfortable. And above all else, they make me feel completely comfortable in my own skin. I am me in personality and I attract people with that alone when I'm in my sweats. Dressing up is great, but I like being me inside and out.
Do not stare at me or wonder why I make the choices I do. I am an individual who has the personal right to act, speak, and believe as I do. I decide my path in life. I decide who comes with me. I am in charge of myself and no one else. Do not judge.
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